Buying gifts should be fun... but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Some people are just impossible to buy for. They either have everything already, they’re incredibly fussy, or they claim they “don’t want anything” (unhelpful!).
If you’re searching for the best gifts for people who are hard to buy for, this UK guide has you covered. These are thoughtful, practical, and genuinely lovely gift ideas — many of them handmade or from small UK businesses — that people will actually use and appreciate.
Why Are Some People So Hard to Buy For?
I always think of my brother when I write posts like this. He's genuinely impossible to buy for. One year I found myself wandering around the shops, completely stuck, and ended up buying him fancy socks. Not exactly exciting, but at least they were practical! It was one of those moments where I realised that the best gifts are often the simple, useful ones — especially if they're handmade or feel personal.
We all know them. The parent who already owns everything. The friend who says, "Don't get me anything!" The person whose hobbies are so niche you're scared to guess wrong. Buying gifts for people like this isn't just tricky — it can feel impossible.
The secret? Choose something thoughtful, useful, or handmade. Something they’ll actually use — not just shove in a drawer. And if in doubt? Go handmade. It's personal, thoughtful, and way more memorable than another box of chocolates.
The 3 Types of Hard-to-Buy-For People
- The Minimalist - Doesn't want 'stuff' and hates clutter.
- The Collector - Already owns every version of their hobby item.
- The Fussy Friend - "Don't get me anything!" but secretly wants something perfect.
Best Gift Strategy?
Find something they’ll actually use, that's a little bit special or has a story behind it. Handmade gifts are perfect because no one else will have exactly the same thing.
1. A Beautiful Handmade Tote Bag
Why It Works: Practical, stylish, and endlessly useful. Tote bags make brilliant gifts because everyone needs one — for shopping, days out, work, or just throwing everything in and heading out the door. And with so many styles and fabrics available, it can feel really personal.
Gift it with: A little note inside saying, "For life's bits and bobs. And the emergency chocolate."
If you want to see what I make, you can have a little browse here: Handmade Tote Bags
2. A Unique Notebook or Journal
Why It Works: Notebooks are perfect for list-makers, dreamers, or even doodlers. Handmade notebook covers make it feel extra special and personal.
Gift it with: A beautiful pen or a little packet of prompts or quotes inside.
I make notebook covers too if that’s your kind of thing: Embroidered Notebook Covers
3. Handmade Cushions
Why It Works: Everyone loves a cosy home. Handmade cushions with rescued fabric feel like a thoughtful, stylish gift that adds character to any space.
Gift it with: A note that says, "For your favourite comfy corner."
And yes, I even make handmade cushion covers (because cosy is always a win): Handmade Cushion Covers
4. Artisan Candles
Why It Works: Scented candles always go down well. Look for UK candle makers using natural wax, essential oils, and pretty packaging.
Gift it with: A handwritten tag that says, "For cosy nights in."
5. Craft Kits
Why It Works: The gift of something to do! Craft kits are brilliant for sparking creativity — pottery, embroidery, candle-making, or even chocolate-making kits. If you're looking for ideas, Sculpd do brilliant pottery-at-home kits in the UK — perfect for beginners.
Check out Sculpd's Pottery Kits
Gift it with: A little note that says, "Time for some me-time."
6. Experience Gifts
Why It Works: For the person who doesn’t need any more stuff. Think local pottery classes, food tours, or creative workshops.
Gift it with: A voucher or printed invite in a lovely card.
7. Handmade Jewellery
Why It Works: Handmade jewellery always feels thoughtful and special. Look for small UK makers for one-of-a-kind finds.
Gift it with: A note that says, "Because you deserve something beautiful."
8. Personalised Gifts
Why It Works: Initials on a notebook, custom candle labels, or personalised mugs. It shows extra thought and care.
Gift it with: Their name or a funny phrase they always say.
9. Eco-Friendly Swaps
Why It Works: Reusable coffee cups, beeswax wraps, or handmade soap show you care — for them and the planet.
Gift it with: A card explaining the eco-friendly benefits.
10. Handmade Food Gifts
Why It Works: Handmade food gifts are ALWAYS a win. Think local jams, chutneys, posh biscuits, or artisan chocolate.
Gift it with: A lovely reusable tin or jar.
FAQ About Buying Gifts for Difficult People
What do you buy for someone who has everything?
Choose something they’ll actually use, like a beautiful tote bag, a notebook, or handmade food gifts. Practical or personalised gifts are always a winner.
Are handmade gifts better?
Absolutely. Handmade gifts feel more thoughtful and unique. They show care and effort, which makes them extra special.
What's a good last-minute gift for someone hard to buy for?
A craft kit, experience voucher, or handmade food item can be found quickly but still feels thoughtful and personal.
Final Thoughts
People who are hard to buy for often just want something thoughtful. It’s not about how much you spend — it’s about showing that you really thought about them.
Handmade gifts from small businesses like mine are full of heart. They come with stories, love, and real human hands behind them.
Still stuck? You can always browse my latest handmade creations here:
Shop Handmade Gifts at Watership Down Crafts
